Why Do We Homeschool?

Every now and then it is good to evaluate that question: why do we home school our children?

Is it to give our children an excellent education, far superior to public schools? Is it so that we can shelter them from outside influences? Is it so that we can teach them at their own pace, and individualize their curriculum to suit their learning styles?

While all these do have there place in our reasons for homeschooling, they are really minuscule in the grand scheme of things.

Having a clear answer to this question helps us to evaluate curriculum in light of my goals for my children. It helps me to stay on path to achieve the purpose we had when we began this journey. It helps me to regain my focus when I have lost it. And it helps me to remain calm when I become overwhelmed.

For the most part, my husband and I are first generation Christians. As children, we attended church sporadically and were taught some basics, but being a Christian didn’t influence how we thought, what we did, or who we were. It was just something that we did on Sunday. The little strings of faith that we had then certainly helped us to get where we are today. and we are grateful for the faith that was given to us. But we have a much larger vision for our own family.

Since we have become parents, suddenly imparting our faith and values took on a whole new meaning. Having children gave us an urgency to train them up in righteousness, holiness, faith and love and to pass that onto the generations after us. It opened our eyes and hearts to see that training our children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord can not only affect their souls for eternity, it can impact this sin darkened world far beyond the four walls of our home.

Our reasons for homeschooling extend far beyond academics. Homeschooling goes far beyond their “educational” years. It isn’t about getting through high school, passing a test, or having a good career. It is about building their foundation on the Rock, brick by brick, stone by stone (Matthew 7:24-27). In our little corner of homeschooling, we are training warriors for His army, disciples, future voters and leaders, men and woman who will impact this world for years to come. We believe we can steer the course of a nation through the diligent, Godly training of our children, and their children, and the children after them. God’s vision for family has always been multi-generational (Deut 6:2) and ours should be as well. We may not reap the harvest right away, but we are sowing into that harvest as we work to teach, guide, and love our children as God has called us.(Deut. 6:7)

The actions of my children will be based on what they believe as they grow into adults. How they view marriage, careers, money, God, creation, law and theology, to name a few, will be a reflection of what they believe. If they are not trained in truth according to God’s word, then they will be “tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming” (Eph. 4:14) Instead may our children love God with all their heart and mind, from infancy know the holy Scriptures, grow in wisdom, stature and favor with God, take every thought captive to Christ, dwell on whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and admirable so that they can be thoroughly equipped for every good work.

So why do we home school? Because if we are not teaching our children doctrine, someone else will. If we are not shaping their beliefs, someone else is. If we don’t have their hearts, someone else does. Homeschooling is a lot of work, it is hard, it has caused us to sacrifice many things in this life. No matter the difficulties, whatever the sacrifice, there is no other choice for us.

Every family has a reason as to why they do (or do not) home school. Whatever the choice is for your family,  having clarity as to why you are choosing the path you are on is so important. You will always have naysayers, those who agree or disagree with your choices. Having vision for our family has given us peace and assurance that we are doing what we believe we are called to do.  And I am so thankful that with all the uncertainties this world has to offer, we have a solid place to stand!

Joy at fivej’s.com has begun a new Thirsty Thursday meme which will focus on homeschooling topics and encouragement. She has an excellent article up today about choosing curriculum. I have been excited to join in and read others posts and encourage you to read them and link up if you have the chance!

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